Sometimes, we want to close out our hearts because we have been hurt and betrayed. No matter how hard we try, if our heart starts beating again, it is something that we cannot stop. If you are having second thoughts, here are some questions that you need to ask yourself to confirm if you are falling in love with someone.
- Are you thinking about him all the time?
Check yourself. The guy that you are seeing is he someone that you think all the time? It’s like he is the first person that you can think of the moment you open your eyes and even before you go to sleep. There will also be instances when you are doing something, and all you can remember is that special person.
- Are you thinking of the future with him?
All of a sudden your plans are changing. With all the things you are planning for yourself, you are now considering that special someone as part of your life. The things you want to do now will include him in the picture. Here’s an example. You are offered a job out of state, and you were already prepared for it, but when he came along, suddenly it doesn’t feel right to leave.
- Do you feel the need to improve?
One day if you wake up, and you are inspired to make yourself better, there’s a good chance that it’s because you want to impress someone. It could be physical that you start to be conscious with your figure and lose some pounds. If you are suddenly worried about having a bad hair day and start your diet meals, it is a symptom that you are feeling something more than just admiration.
If you have asked yourself these three things and your answer is all yes, congratulations because you are now in love.